Straight Forward

Can u just be, SIMPLY BE Straight forward? Or is it just, u r not brave ENOUGH to say ur true reasons, ur true why?!! Can u just stop spinning around, and respect MY smartness?!! Is that even POSSIBLE?!

Even if ur “spinning around thing” worked with lots of people, it won’t with others, and u can consider me one of the others. Even if it was bought at the beginning, it won’t be bought all the time, sooner or later ur true reasons will be revealed, and when that happens u will lose respect, trust, and u will be considered as a liar.

Little piece of advice, GIVE IT A SECOND THOUGHT!!

No, It’s fine!!

Visualize this situation:

I am mad at one of my friends, he/she has upset me. I have said nothing about it, but he/she can c it in my eyes, in my way of speaking/acting.

My friend: Is everything ok, r u mad at me or something, have I done anything that has upset u?!

Me: No, It’s fine.

NO,IT’S FINE!!!

This “No, it’s fine” has many meanings, from the victim’s side (in the visualized situation, my side) =D

1.   No, it’s fine, as we have talked about it before, u know VERY WELL what upsets me, so I have no intention in repeating myself over and over again. If u cared ENOUGH u would not have done what u have done AGAIN. Clearly u don’t.
2.  No, it’s fine, as ur list goes on and on, I do not know from where to start, I have reached that point where I do not care anymore, it doesn’t hurt anymore, it’s the end, u have lost me and am walking away.
3. No, it’s fine, as am going to shut up. I will wait till things pile up then am going to burst.
4.  No, it’s fine, as u should have known that it will upset me.
5. No, it’s fine, as I will act normal, like nothing has happened but I will not let it pass, “haramy kalam men ta7at le ta7at”, simply I will drive u crazy (6).

From the other side =)

1.  I know I have made a mistake, and I know that u want to yell at me (it’s ur right), but I will take ur answer as an excuse and act like a stupid so I can avoid ur yelling, hoping that u will forget what has happened after some time.
2.  In the case of “u should have known that it will upset me”, people r not mind readers, so how could he/she knows, of curse there are some basics that people can not disagree on, like friends should not bail on each other, but what if they did a mistake and they did not mean to, their intentions were something else, of curse they would not feel like they have made a mistake unless u tell them.
3. I know I have made a mistake, and I know that u r mad, but I do not really care, so “e7’baty rasek fy el 7eta”.

Mind Reading

Have u ever wondered how much our life would be easier if we could read people’s mind?!! what if “Technology people who make everything possible and easy in our life” invented a device which makes us able to read people’s mind, people’s thought?!! Or how would it be like if u could have this kind of a super natural power?!!

I have asked myself these questions, and I wished I could have this device/super natural power one day, but after MANY thoughts and LOTS of ifs, one last if came across my mind, if I could have it then anyone else could, and by doing so we r ruining people’s privacy, the one last thing which we can guarantee that no one would know what’s inside it unless we let them in, even if we let them in, we let them in ONLY PARTIALLY, we choose what to share and what not to share .

Correction: It would not make our life easier, it will do just the opposite, how many times have u talked to someone u hated, and kept cursing him over and over again inside ur head, but still u showed enough respect cause u have to, cause u have to deal with people u do not like (sometimes u hate) everyday in ur life. How many thoughts have crossed ur mind about people u know (the kind of thoughts that if they have heard it, they will not talk to u again). How many…How many… How manyyy……..?!!!

My point is, the mind reading super natural power will not make our life easier, it will make it harder, full of fights and hatred ….of course it will be much easier to know what people r thinking of, who is lying and who’s not…..etc but at the end of the day there is a compromise like in everything else, the question is… R u willing to lose ur privacy for that?!!